Archive for April, 2009
Trendy and Comfortable Plus-Sized Clothing for Women Easily Available These Days
Apr 29th
Everyone, including the plus-sized as well as the missy-sized women are clamoring for apparel that is affordable, fashionable, and unique. Ten years ago it was easy to get apparel for “average-sized” women in any of the shopping malls, clothing boutiques, etc., but for plus-sized women it was difficult to find plus sized clothing with any real style. This was mainly because of the limited supply of plus-sized clothing at even the leading chain stores like Wal-Mart, K-Mart, etc. Finally, plus-sized women were left with no choice but to demand that designers make plus-size women’s clothes for them.
With time things have changed, which has brought smile in the face of these women who can now shop online as well as in brick and mortar plus size stores. With these new services, apparel is not only for the average or the missy-sized women, but also for curvy women. So now, every plus-sized woman has many options in where the go to find the latest looks for themselves. Many apparel designers and manufacturers are developing several lines of plus-size clothing because of the increased demand in the market in the last few years. These plus-sized clothes not only feature the latest trends from sportswear, casual wear, undergarments, business wear, etc. but are also available in some of the popular brand stores. Moreover, a good discount is usually available on plus-sized clothes from several online and offline stores.
Days are gone when the plus-sized women’s clothes were restricted to selective stores or outlets, and with their increased demand in the last few years, plus sized clothing designers have carved a special niche for themselves. There are many outlets or stores which offer their customers with plus sized women’s clothing, plus size blouses, plus size dresses. Available in different colors and designs, the plus-sized clothes these days are available for every occasion and season. Enjoy the revolution that has arrived in women’s plus-size clothing.
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Plus Size Summer Swimwear
Apr 29th
So, we all know that woman who loves her body and is excited for summer to arrive. She’s confident. She can’t wait for those steamy, hot days of summer so she can break out her bikini and confidently strut her stuff on the beach and by the pool. But the truth is, we probably know the same woman!!! LOL! Why? Because there are so few women who fit that description, and most certainly she is not plus size!
The fact is that most of us are varying degrees of the opposite. We wish for just a few more weeks before summer vacation to crash diet or to do some extra laps on the treadmill or in the swimming pool (and I don’t mean one with a floating bar and a pool boy).
And then, quite honestly, there’s the rest of us. Those who, despite confidence in our charm, full-figured beauty and everyday pizzazz, honestly wish that swimsuit season would be reduced to three days on a deserted tropical island. Why? Because quite simply, it’s hard to accent your best features and delicately hide your frailties and flaws when clad in only a one piece sheath, or worse, that itsy bitsy polka dot bikini.
But like it or not, those dog days of summer are coming; and though it may not be your favorite season, there are certainly more than a few plus size swimsuits to help you smooth your lines, flatter your curves, and bring out your million-dollar smile. Here’s a few great tips to help you find one (and I promise I won’t tell you to avoid horizontal stripes!).
1. Take an honest look at yourself in a full-length mirror. Remember, your body is your temple. It carries you around every day, and it’s probably far more beautiful than you may feel comfortable to admit. Don’t worry about the parts that you DON’T like (you know those). Just for a few moments, have the courage to take stock of what you admire about your body. Do you have great curvy legs? A voluptuous cleavage? Strong arms? A great derriere? Remember that accenting those assets is your number one priority when swimsuit shopping.
2. Setting aside basic funeral black, take a look at your closet. Which colors look GREAT on you – bringing out your complexion, skin tone, and eye color? We’re all much too quick to reach for the blackest black when we pick out a swimsuit. Why? Are we grieving our fun-loving, younger selves who didn’t worry about weight so much? Listen, toss that boo-hoo booty right out the door and have some fun! Go for something vibrant and beautiful that makes you want to soak in the sun and enjoy good times with friends. Love how kelly green brings out your freckles, but can’t get away from your need to wear black? Go for a combo of the two in daring diagonal stripes and a daring green mesh sarong. (PS: Your challenge THIS year is to not buy another plain, black-on-black bathing suit.)
3. Okay, now we’re down to business. Choosing a swimsuit that complements your full figure is not so awful. Believe me, the multi-million dollar swimsuit industry has surely created a design that is perfect for the million-dollar you. If you’re best asset is your legs, but you wish to minimize your full bustline, go for a high cut leg with a swim back sheath in a gorgeous royal blue. Have a great bustline, but worry about your fuller rear? Go for a stunning red v-neck with a black lace, ankle-length sarong.
The point is this: there IS a swimsuit that will look great on you, no matter what your body type. After all, you’re a beautiful woman, and beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. And remember: nothing looks better on anyone than a birthday suit full of confidence.
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Discount Childrenswear and Chainstore Childrenswear at Chainstore Clothing
Apr 29th
It is said that children’s clothing is more expensive than adult clothing because of the attention to detail necessary to make children’s clothing durable and appealing. Children’s wear must be durable to withstand the natural bodily activeness and playfulness of children, as well as be appealing because children do have a sense of fashion equal only to their parents’ pride in them. It is fortunate for parents that there are companies offering discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear, which are as durable and as appealing as upscale clothing lines but at very affordable prices. Discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear are also good news for businessmen who want to earn handsome profits at lower capital outlays.
One such store offering discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear is ChainStore Clothing based in central Manchester, England. With over 20 years experience as an ex-chainstore wholesaler, you are assured of customer satisfaction both in its efficient service and its quality apparel for children at bargain prices. Its products range from ladies clothing to men’s clothing to children’s clothing, with international labels as OshKosh, Dora the Explorer, Disney, Nick Jr., and Kids Headquarters under its kid clothing lines and other world-famous labels such as Marks and Spencer for its other clothing lines. With ChainStore Clothing, discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear is just a name to refer to the low, low prices but not to the quality and original exclusivity of the products.
With ChainStore Clothing, almost all discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear are fully-labeled, meaning that they still have their original labels on. Thus, if you are a clothing businessman buying from ChainStore Clothing and intending to resell the products, you will not find it difficult to earn profit even at half the price of the high street establishments since the brands are well-known for their durability and appeal, with intact tags to attest to their authenticity. If you are a parent with choosey and fashion-conscious children, ChainStore Clothing’s discount childrenswear and chainstore childrenswear will satisfy their fashion sense without burning a deep hole in your pocket. Either way, a customer discovers that at
ChainStore Clothing, there is good value for good money.
ChainStore Clothing now offers babywear like ex-OshKosh baby boy 2-pocket shirts and cotton chinos, cute Pooh Bear anoraks and leggings sets, adorable Pooh & Tigger, and Minnie sets, and charming Disney pyjama sets. Character children’s wear include popular Mickey and Minnie sets, colourful Dora the Explorer jeans sets, cool Spiderman T-shirt and shorts sets, playful Nemo sets, and attractive KHQ jog suits. There are coats and jackets bearing OshKosh, Disney, and Pooh Bear prints as well as ex-M&S girls’ nightwear and ex-Fior di Bimbi boys’ pajamas. There are ex-OshKosh boys’ T-shirts and polos, ex-Cherokees boys’ T-shirts and Calvin Klein T-shirts in various sizes and colors. For the girls, there are ex-OshKosh blouses, Gumballs layered tops, cardigans, jackets, sweatshirts and blouses. There are also ex-Cherokee trousers, Bob the Builder pants, ex-OshKosh trousers and ex-Mothercare pants. With the extensive choices for kid’s wear at ChainStore Clothing, finding that perfect kid’s attire that will appeal to your child and that will suit your budget should not be a problem.
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Buying Trendy Plus Size Clothing
Apr 29th
Even though you may want to buy trendy plus size clothing, you should make sure that you also buy classic pieces such as sweaters, denim, pants, tops, and other clothing that can be worn season after season. Apparel that is trendy will only look good for a season, maybe two. So when you are shopping for work and casual clothing, you should pick up one or two trendy pieces, and fill in the gaps with quality plus sizes that will look great for a few seasons.
Trendy clothing can be clothing that is colorful, cut a certain way, or a trend can include accessories such as belts, jewelry, shoes, or scarves. Many in the fashion business will tell you to choose clothing with clean lines in neutral colors that you can accessorize with other colors and trendy accessories. Spend money on a colorful scarf instead of brightly colored pants. Full size clothing should look sophisticated and put together. You should not have to buy clothes that will make you look frumpy or uncomfortable.
Shopping for intimate apparel is important for several reasons. The right undergarments will make you look shapely and will also make clothing look better on your body. While there are many trendy undergarments to choose from, you find pieces that are made from quality fabrics that are comfortable. If you need extended sizes, you may be able to find them online or in specialty shops. You will also be able to find hosiery. You should invest some money in undergarments because they will make you feel better during the day.
There are many plus size shops and brand names that you will find once you begin looking for new dresses and other casual and career wear. Torrid fashion Hot Kiss, Lei, Z Cavaricci, and other brand names are available in stores and online. If you need to find work wear, you should decide what you feel the most comfortable in and shop for separates as well as suits. This will give you a lot more variety when you are pairing pieces together. You should join a clothing club or two when visiting these stores. You will receive discounts and other items that will save you some money.
Regardless of what you are shopping for, whether it is career wear or intimate playboy apparel, you should only add a few trendy pieces into your wardrobe. You will save a lot of money buying pieces that can be worn for more than a season or two. If you want to shop online, just make sure you know your measurements so you will make good purchasing decisions. Even though you can return items you buy online, you should try to buy the right sizes so you can begin to build a long lasting wardrobe.
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Finding the Right Fit – Your Favorite Plus Size Retailer
Apr 28th
I went into my closet the other day and realized that it’s almost time for the new spring fashions to hit the stores. Now I have to admit, while I sometimes still worry about looking too big, I have always celebrated the end of the winter wardrobe. I have just never been comfortable hidden under ten layers of clothing and locked inside heavy woolen fabrics. Every year, around the end of January, I start pining to feel the air against my bare arms and the sun warming my face. I count the days until I can hang my puffy down winter coat, wrapped carefully in a burgundy garment bag, in the back of my coat closet and leave my mismatched gloves in the farthest corner of my lowest drawer.
Spring is my season. I love the pastel colors and the scent of things blooming around me. So for me, finding a few great retailers that carry great looking clothes in my plus size is just part of my annual wardrobe renewal. And quite simply, I don’t want to be patronized as a “big girl” and forced to wear styles that are – well, style-less. I want to find a few favorite places that I know will always have some great ensembles and where my plus size won’t cause some saleswoman to look me up and down and roll her eyes. (Yes, it still happens.)
Like everywhere that we hand our “hard earned” cash over to, none of us want to be without grace or appreciation. And that goes especially for intimate purchases – like clothing. There’s no feeling better (or worse) than walking out of the dressing room and seeing yourself in that outfit you just couldn’t resist. For the plus size woman, the right salesperson can definitely influence which way that experience will go.
For me, there are three places that I have grown to LOVE as a plus size consumer: Macy’s, Nordstrom’s, and for my online purchases, Sealed with a Kiss Designs, swakdesigns.com . I have to admit, I love the allure of going into a store, walking around all the new things, trying a few things on, and bringing home my number one favorite in a garment bag. I feel like Maria in West Side Story every single time, twirling in front of my full length mirror and reminding myself that I am the hottest size 16 on the block.
But there’s definitely a huge convenience factor to online shopping, and SWAK has gone really far to make the process as simple and painless as possible. Not only do they make sure to always have a great new selection to choose from, but they also have their website categorized by ITEM – you can literally click on “plus size little black dress” and find at least a dozen fabulous choices. Plus size camisoles, plus size split skirts – you name it, this company has a category for it. (I’ve requested that they add a button called “Spring Fling” just for me!)
The bottom line is this – whatever your size, whatever your style, find a few great retailers that you can stick with time and time again. And if you really love the company, take the time to drop them a note and say that, or mention them in your blog if you have one (be sure to send a copy to the CEO’s email address). Make sure that if they have an email newsletter that you sign up for it. Going through the effort to actually build a relationship with your purveyor will go a long way when you need them to honor a return that is far past their policy or exchange something for the third time.
Make no mistake, companies WANT to keep their best customers happy – especially in today’s economy – so be sure to let them know that you ARE one of their best clients. After all, spring is only three short months away, and there’s a snazzy new wardrobe waiting somewhere just for you!
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Online Internet Websites Market Dressy **** Womens Plus Size New Fall Fashions and Trendy Clothes
Apr 28th
After years of study on the size and structure of American women, plus size women, including plus size teens and junior plus size females, have gotten the attention of the clothing industry and designers. Plus size beautiful women have moved beyond the expected plus size maternity clothes to be sized and fitted with plus size special occasion dresses that include plus size party dresses, prom dresses and wedding dresses.
More and more fashion shows are including plus size models. More and more designers are creating new, colorful, dressy and **** plus size women’s apparel to cater to this large segment of America’s population. Women boutiques are opening up all across America and online offering everything from **** plus size lingerie to plus size Wedding dresses and gowns to meet the needs of their clientele.
As the summer enters the second half of August, our attention to fashions begins to change like the color of leaves on the trees that mark fall’s arrival. This Summer into Fall Styles will have a new look for plus size clothing for women this fall. Plus size fashions for women this fall, like with every September, will be putting away the plus size swimwear, tankinis, skirtinis, swimdresses, and cover-ups in favor of warmer outerwear and separates.
Junior plus size urban trendy clothing will include hoodies, sweatshirts, sweatpants, and sweaters. The designers will introduce fall fashion colors into these new fall looks. These plus size clothes will be trendy and **** when women mix and match these plus size women’s separates.
Trendy plus size pantsuits, blouses, blazers, wrap sweaters, cardigans, kimono sleeve sweaters, pencil skirts, gored skirts, a line skirts, tops, turtlenecks and long sleeve mock turtlenecks will create a bright fresh fall look for women in these fall fashions. Plus size wide leg jeans and 5 pocket jeans will keep the fun alive rolling around in a pile of colorful leaves or a night out clubbing.
Fall wedding planners will have a wide choice of plus size wedding dresses and gowns. Bridesmaid’s fall wedding color dresses in all sizes are available. A plus size Mother of the Bride pant suit will fit quite comfortably for those cool October Weddings.
Plus size career clothing, evening and cocktail dresses will provide women with the proper apparel for the work place and those important evening gatherings with the corporation’s bosses, co-workers, and clients.
As back-to-school sales commercials punctuate our television programs and the daily newspapers sell full page ads for all of our children’s school needs as Labor Day approaches, let these signs be a reminder to you to begin shopping now for your new fall plus-size wardrobe. Many of the best bargains you will find are on the internet for all your plus size needs for both work and play.
With present day economics of high gas prices and higher prices in the market place due to these same fuel costs for the manufacturer and retailer, one can find SPECIAL SAVINGS for Online Internet Shopping Only, and many websites provide FREE SHIPPING with an advertised dollar amount of purchases. This saves time and money for you, the customer.
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Lingerie for the Plus Size Woman
Apr 28th
There is a sentence I repeat several times a day. I say it to myself, I offer it to my friends and coworkers, and I remind others of its veracity constantly. That sentence is, “Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes.” Owning that idea wasn’t always easy – it took some work, and it takes work to help others get there, too. It’s as simple as reminding them that a mere hundred years ago, all the burlesque queens had curves.
Sometimes, that conversation takes on a life of its own and veers into the world of “sexy is as **** does.” The Internet has been a tremendously liberating experience for plus size women, especially when it comes to lingerie – and even the bigger question of sexuality in general. As society grew more and more focused on weight and the ever-present oxymoron that we were all supposed to be thin, it seemed for a while that being a full figured woman almost became something to be ashamed of. We were told to dress in layers – or worse – don’t leave the house at all. Certainly, we weren’t supposed to be flirtatious and titillating – that belonged solely to the size 6 and under set.
What a lie! Fortunately for me – and beautiful plus size women just like me – there has been a big backlash to the thin lie we’ve all been force fed. Personally, I want to OWN my beauty every day of my life, and I want to own everything that goes with it. The idea that I should hide my body once the lights go out is worse than absurd; it’s destructive.
I can remember searching for a lace penoir set when my best friend, Carolyn, got married in our early twenties. Carolyn was amazingly beautiful (still is) – so much so that she was voted best looking in our senior yearbook. She was still gorgeous five years later at a size 22 when she got engaged. I knew it, her fiancée knew it, everyone knew it. But apparently Macy’s, JCPenney, and all the other lingerie departments in our hometown didn’t know it. The only choices they gave were worse than unflattering – they were boring. After many weeks of frustration, the bridal party and I gave up and paid a local seamstress to design and sew a one-of-a-kind, amazingly beautiful sheer silk and lace penoir (with a tiny red heart on the cleavage, just for fun).
With the birth of the online world, we’re now privy to endless examples of adorable, sexy, plus sized clothing and lingerie with the click of a mouse. Everything from the simplest French Maid’s outfit right down to a leopard print G-string – you ask for it, it’s out there.
Working at SWAK Designs has offered me a million opportunities to be part of an exciting and wonderful revolution, and today, I invite you to join me and participate as well. It’s a sexual revolution for the new millennium – one where every woman is empowered to dress it up and strut her stuff. If you’re a plus size diva, buy yourself something **** and new to wear in the boudoir and allow yourself (and your partner) some exciting new sizzle in the bedroom (or wherever!). And remember, **** starts with what’s on the inside – but like everywhere in life, a great wardrobe sure doesn’t hurt!
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Magical World of Wholesale Ladies Clothing for Desired Business Results
Apr 28th
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All the ladies out there will have another reason to smile. Online Clothing Solution is now here. Online Clothing Solution is your newest online web information resource for your wholesale ladies fashion needs. Their products, which include cute trendy clothes wholesale, ladies apparel wholesale, fashion tops wholesale, junior wholesale clothing and a whole lot more, are all available internationally. As one of the most reliable fashion wholesalers, Online Clothing Solution takes pride in the good reputation they have built over the years of servicing a wide network of regular clients. Not only are they in demand among Hong Kong Fashion wholesalers and other clothing suppliers, they are cater to the needs f individuals who intend to put up their own wholesale fashion clothing business.
Let find out the reasons they remain so: Online Clothing Solution understands that not everyone can afford to buy stylish clothing for everyday life. But yet there remains a necessity for everyone to regularly look and feel good in what they wear and reflect their true selves. Hence, Online Clothing Solution offers their wholesaler clients an answer to these needs: Utmost trendiest clothing at low and affordable prices. With Online Clothing Solution, you will be confident with the idea that buying cheap is definitely not something wrong or bad at all. Although for those who can afford it, buying designer-labeled clothing may not be a problem, people who can’t spend as much for their clothing can look up Online Clothing Solution selection of clothing supplies wholesale and get great clothes at great deals. Besides, there more to what one is wearing than just the labels. Online Clothing Solution has their products designs inspirited from the latest magazine style designs and from the newest from global fashion world.
So with Online Clothing Solution, you can save up on your purchases while getting something that is definitely good. Online Clothing Solution also tries to eliminate the misconception people have about wholesale products being dirty or second-handed. Buying your clothing wholesale needs at Online Clothing Solution will make you experience first hand that great clothing can actually be available for everybody at cheaper prices minus the soils of second-hand clothing. While Online Clothing Solution understands every retailer need to be able to source something decent and fashionable for their customers, they also understand the financial catch that goes with it.
Hence, Online Clothing Solution has figured out a way to answer that need while considering other important factors such as business budgets. Online Clothing Solution is the ultimate example of wholesale business where everybody can find fashion wholesale clothing that is perfect for their personality and their budget. In fact, one should know that with the prices online wholesale malls like Online Clothing Solution offers their clients mans being able to buy at least a dozen fashionable shirts with them for the price of one at your regular designer store. So when you talk about, looking good and staying in budget, try out the clothing wholesale options available with us.
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Buying Wholesale Clothing (and Saving) at Causewaymall
Apr 28th
All the ladies out there will have another reason to smile. CausewayMall is now here. CausewayMall is your newest online mall for your wholesale ladies fashion needs. Their products, which include cute trendy clothes wholesale, ladies apparel wholesale, fashion tops wholesale, junior wholesale clothing and a whole lot more, are all available internationally. As one of the most reliable fashion wholesalers, CausewayMall takes pride in the good reputation they have built over the years of servicing a wide network of regular clients. Not only are they in demand among Hong Kong Fashion wholesalers and other clothing suppliers, they are cater to the needs f individuals who intend to put up their own wholesale fashion clothing business. Let’s find out the reasons they remain so:
CausewayMall understands that not everyone can afford to buy stylish clothing for everyday life. But yet there remains a necessity for everyone to regularly look and feel good in what they wear and reflect their true selves. Hence, CausewayMall offers their wholesaler clients an answer to these needs: Utmost trendiest clothing at low and affordable prices.
With CausewayMall, you will be confident with the idea that buying cheap is definitely not something wrong or bad at all. Although for those who can afford it, buying designer-labeled clothing may not be a problem, people who can’t spend as much for their clothing can look up CausewayMall’s selection of clothing supplies wholesale and get great clothes at great deals. Besides, there’s more to what one is wearing than just the labels. CausewayMall has their products designs inspirited from the latest magazine style designs and from the newest in the Korean and Japanese fashion. So with CausewayMall, you can save up on your purchases while getting something that is definitely good.
CausewayMall also tries to eliminate the misconception people have about wholesale products being dirty or second-handed. Buying your clothing wholesale needs at CausewayMall will make you experience first hand that great clothing can actually be available for everybody at cheaper prices minus the soils of second-hand clothing.
While CausewayMall understands every retailer’s need to be able to source something decent and fashionable for their customers, they also understand the financial catch that goes with it. Hence, CausewayMall has figured out a way to answer that need while considering other important factors such as business budgets. CausewayMall is the ultimate example of wholesale business where everybody can find fashion clothing that is perfect for their personality and their budget. In fact, one should know that with the prices online wholesale malls like CausewayMall offers their clients mans being able to buy at least a dozen fashionable shirts with them for the price of one at your regular designer store.
So when you talk about looking good and staying in budget, try out the clothing wholesale from Causeway Mall is definitely a good idea.
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Plus Size Role Models for the Real World: Tyra Banks, Oprah, Wynonna and Me
Apr 28th
There’s a certain magic that comes with being a celebrity. They are dynamic; they are engaging. In fact, even though we never meet them, they often become role models. Through their work, they invite us to look into ourselves and find the magic inside each of us. For plus size women, these role models also have something that we often have very little of – confidence. Even those female celebrities who struggle with their weight and body image seem to know that they have something magical and unique, and that it has nothing to do with the size of their derriere or the number on the tag of their blouse.
Like all human beings, starlets come in an endless array of shapes and sizes – they come in the slender variety by the dozens – and they come in the not-so-slender category, like fuller-figured retired supermodel Tyra Banks. Season after season, Tyra uses her popular show, America’s Next Top Model, to champion plus size women at every turn. It was very exciting to see a plus size model finally win the title of “America’s Next Top Model,” Whitney Thompson. And no conversation about plus-size role models would be complete without Oprah Winfrey – the queen of the modern-day weight battle.
So what is it about these particular women? Is it that they love themselves just a little more than the rest of us? Or is it simply that they ask US to love ourselves more – and to own EVERYTHING magical about ourselves that has NOTHING to do with our bodies?
Because I think that most of us look at their struggles with weight and often think, “Who cares?” When I see Wynonna Judd or Oprah struggling with their weight over and over, I never stop being amazed that they would even CARE about that. They are accomplished and fantastic, after all, and their beauty is NOT up for debate. So the question I am then led to ask is this: What does that say about me???
Much to my amazement, time after time, the answer is that I stop seeing myself from the outside – as a “plus size” woman – and instead, I see myself as a PHENOMENAL woman. My beauty is also not up for debate – not even by me! And it does NOT depend on the size of my a**.
Believing that our worth is proportionately tied to our size (in adverse ratios, I might add) is as awful as believing that it is tied to our race, or our bank account, or the neighborhood we live in. It’s just another form of lies and false division. The WORST insult is when I do it to myself.
That is why I so often write about the importance of plus size fashion and having a killer wardrobe – because I am NOT going to let my magic be overlooked just because I’m hiding in the crowd, embarrassed about my weight. There’s so much more to me that really matters in this world. My style matters. My vision matters. My PASSION matters. My ability to inspire others, my capacity to spot great ideas, my savvy when it comes to marketing and positioning – all of that matters. My fat a**? Not so much. And that, quite simply, is how I feel about that.
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